The size of the penis is one of the most debated topics when it comes to sex, since adolescence, and it is no coincidence that when it comes to virility, reference is often made to the size of the male member. On the other hand, the imagination transmitted by the world of porn wants the most skilled amateurs to also be very gifted, unlike those who, on the other hand, having a small penis, are destined to live a poor and sad sex life. But how true are these stereotypes? And what do women think?
Penis size: what we know
All penises, as well as all vaginas, are different: long, short, thick, thin, straight or curved, male members can have all kinds of shapes and sizes and this makes it impossible to define a criterion of “perfection” from the point of sexual view. Without prejudice to some extreme cases in one direction or another, in fact, it is possible to state with a certain degree of certainty that every phallus can make a woman happy , if it is used with passion and criterion.
Source of anxiety and insecurity especially in the less experienced, the size of the penis should not be taken as the only factor around which female enjoyment revolves and, indeed, it is science itself that demonstrates that sometimes the fear of length is just an unjustified fear. In fact, if we consider that the nerve endings of the vagina from which the woman derives pleasure are concentrated in the first 5 centimeters and that the entire organ does not exceed an average depth of 10 centimeters, it is clear that even those who are apparently small penises can easily bring her to orgasm, provided you choose the right positions and move wisely (which also applies to supergifted ones, who can instead cause excessive pain). However, it is interesting to observe what the opinions of the women themselves are , sifting through the opinions and comments found on the net.
Too big? In some cases, better not
Is it possible for a woman to prefer a smaller penis to a large one? Well yes, at least that’s what seems to emerge from many opinions online, which show how too big a phallus can be a source of annoyance and pain. Those who have lost their virginity with a well-endowed partner, for example, do not hide having had some problems in accepting the penis in the vagina , but also in practicing oral sex, taking away the magic from the entire encounter, but also many women with more experience in bed they reveal that they set limits on size for the same reasons.
No less important is the mental factor , which leads many super-gifted men to think that they are necessarily excellent lovers, a belief that can be harmful if the woman’s needs and pleasure are not satisfied in the bedroom. This does not intend to diminish the pleasure of dealing with an above average sized penis, provided however that whoever is behind that rod is really capable of giving the partner what she wants : it doesn’t have to be a improper weapon but a tool to enjoy!
Positive experiences also with medium-small penises
What makes you think when you read what women on the net say is the fact that most of the positive experiences come from relationships with medium-sized penises or even with small ones: in reality the speech can be broader than expected. you think but a lot seems to depend above all on the emotional and mental involvement . If there is love or in any case feeling, the penetrative act does not in fact represent the only element of pleasure and this makes the whole relationship fun for both. This should relax those who don’t think they are particularly gifted, because very often sex starts from the head and only at the end involves the genitals!
What do those who have tried both think?
Many women reveal that they have had to deal with huge penises as much as with others of more modest dimensions and therefore say they are able to provide a more objective and complete judgment. For example, there are those who say with some certainty that they appreciated a bigger penis during penetration , but that they found oral sex much more satisfying with smaller phalluses, which avoid the risk of feeling suffocated, this demonstrating that the dimensions can indeed have some effect but what counts above all is the desire to experiment with the partner in situations that are comfortable for everyone.
The problem is not the size
However, many negative notes for owners of below average penises come with regard to the aspect of self-esteem and lack of confidence in one’s own lovemaking skills. Perhaps precisely because of the strong weight given to the topic especially when discussing sex with friends, many normal and mini-gifted end up feeling “inferior” compared to the more handsome and well-fitting boys in boxers, ending up with feelings of anxiety and frustration which negatively affect the sexual relationship.
Some women, for example, speak of partners who even avoided sex for fear of failure or who in any case showed embarrassment when showing themselves naked, a situation that much more often than one thinks ends up creating a two-sided relationship. funny and loving in everyday life but disastrous in bed.
And it is perhaps precisely the mental part, more than the mere dimension, the one on which to build one’s reputation as exceptional lovers , able to understand what the partner wants and to satisfy her in all possible ways, perhaps by focusing on one’s strengths which must not necessarily reside in centimeters.
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